A House Is Not Necessarily A Home

In 1971 I was transferred from Brunei to Sumatra and needed a place to stay in Singapore. Ben Lage invited me to move into his Pacific Mansions flat on River Valley Road, a move that changed my life forever. There were four apartments on each floor. Ben's had one the 11th floor, the other three were whore houses.

I quickly discovered that Ben had a simple formula for keeping the cost of rent low, the more people that shared the rent, the lower the cost for each. At one point there were eight or nine of us sharing a three bedroom apartment. Everyone was working hitches on crews scattered all over Indonesia so the chances of everyone being in town at the same time were slim, although every now and then things got a little cozy. Among the crowd were Lindsey Horn, Jim Cebuliack, Ian Urquhart, and Tony Gutierrez. My apologies to the many other names I've forgotten, age has taken a toll on the gray matter.

Other than the proximity of the whorehouse, the apartment was no different than any other in Singapore at the time, almost no furniture, a couple of chairs, a sofa, and 3 beds. The one difference was the stereo system. Stacked in the living room was about US$3000 (70's dollars) worth of stereo equipment. There were huge speakers all over the place. We were young, single studs with money, and we each needed our own full size stereo system. Not the "all in one" boom boxes the kids have today. We had five or six amplifiers, three or four turntables, several reel-to-reel tape units, resonators, and speakers the size of boxcars. We had more power than most major league stadiums. Our woofers could crack windows six blocks away. There were a dozen speakers stacked around the living and more in the bedrooms. Every time one of us came to town we'd see what one of the other guy's had bought & run down to Peter Chew's to get something bigger or better. Peter had a little shop a few blocks away. We had more equipment in our flat than he had in his show room. His salesmen would often bring customers over to our place to show him the latest stuff 'cause we bought if off his shelf faster than he could stock it. People were impressed.

Most apartments and houses in Singapore had thick steel cages on the doors and bars on the windows to keep out thieves. Not Ben's place, you could open the lock with a nail file. Because a triad ran the cathouse, we had protection. The triad didn't want any trouble around the place that would involve the cops, so the word was out – don't mess with the 11th floor of Pacific Mansions. It was a symbiotic relationship. Every now and then the cops would raid the place. The triad would get a tip off that the cops were on the way, and the bouncer and hookers would move all the roll away beds into our place. The hookers would spend the next few hours in our kitchen playing mahjong and servicing anyone who happened to be at home with a free poke. When the cops showed up all they found were three empty apartments and a fourth with an expat at the door telling them to piss off.

Life was good in Ben's place. If you struck out at the Pink Pussy Cat (a virtual impossibility) you could always get "take out" next door. Our rules were simple:

  1. Share and share alike. If a roommate was entertaining a young lady and she happened to stroll out of the room during the night for a cold drink and you were spending the night on the sofa, or passed out on the floor, she was fair game.


  2. First up in the morning was the best dressed. We had an amah that would do our laundry every day and keep the place clean. If your shirts were being washed, then it was ok to borrow anything that would fit. One method of keeping your own shirt on your back was having the tailor make stuff that no one else would wear. The results were new fashion trends such as puffy sleeves or pants with one leg black and the other white (honest – I actually owned and wore this kind off stuff! Hey, it was '70's ok!).


  3. No poofters. Well at least knowingly ending up with a Billy Boy in the apartment was a no-no. What looked good in the wee hours of the morning in Bugis street would often result in a startling discovery back at the flat. Trying to figure out who was going to punt and who was going to receive could get complicated. There was also the problem when rule 1 (see above) was applied.


  4. Ben's girls were only fair game when Ben was out of town.

Rule 4 needs some explanation. Ben Lage was the ultimate cocksman. Born in Cuba he fled to the USA when Castro took over. Ben was older in years but younger in heart and mind than most of us. He truly loved being around and with women all the time. He had a line of bullshit that was almost embarrassing. Lines like "your parents must have been truly in love when they made you sweetheart because you are so beautiful"….. Overheard coming from a bedroom in our flat one night "lagi! lagi!" (Malay for "more, more"), "Just call me Ben sweetheart"

When Ben was in town there was a steady stream of beauties coming through the door day and night. The phone never stopped ringing. A normal guy would need a social secretary just to keep up with Ben's roster. A typical day would see him sending off a young lady in a taxi in the morning another arriving around noon and a couple more lined up for the evening. These were not "working" girls. I have no idea where he met all of them but the guy was a master. He would explain that getting them into bed would often take time, so over a period of weeks / months, Ben would progress from a cup of coffee at a restaurant to Polaroid pictures of a mirror with an image that usually included at least one naked young lady and Ben's hairy ass. People could always tell when Ben liked them. He'd bring out his Polaroid collection. His roommates never bothered looking at them, we'd witnessed the spectacle first hand.

When Ben was out of town we'd often try and get in on the action by calling the ladies listed in his address book. It seldom worked, we just didn't have the finesses that he had. However, there was one occasion when Ian Erquhart answered a phone call for Ben. One of his sweeties was looking for him. Ben was in Sumatra and Ian jumped at the opportunity. He told her Ben was in the shower and after a pause, told her that Ben said she should "come right over". While he was waiting for her to show up, he thought he'd run down to the store & pick-up some beer. He came back with the beer & had a few while he was waiting. After awhile he figured he'd struck out & went into one of the bedrooms to take a shower. Lindsey Horn was on the bed hammering the chick that had called. He'd met her in the elevator when Ian went out for the beer.

Another time it was turn about. While Lindsay Horne was phoning his latest sweetie, Hubbell (visiting with Urquhart), memorized the numbers as they were dialled, and gave them to Ian. The diminutive Australian made off with Lindsay's squeeze.

Such was life in Ben's house. Where ever you are Brother, thank you.

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